How Deeply Rooted Is The Drug-Problem In Our Society?

Past days I listened to a show about the drug problems in our society. And it really kept me thinking.

What is the possible reason why every day more people grab to the drug?

Is the commonly believe that certain drugs are less harmless than others still true? Or have we found out that every drug even the cigarettes are harmful for our body and health. Someone will say ‘but only in excess’…this matter I don’t like to argue, but a lot of personally known people have smoked their whole life and never got any disease. So everybody is responsible for his own body and health and has to decide what’s good for him or what’s not.

Everyone tells that the marijuana is not as bad as the other drugs but is that really true.
I am not sure and I do not want to try out; imagine when you believe someone who invites you for drug consume and tell…come on take a smoke and enjoy us this drug is not harmful, don’t be a chicken…would you enjoy that group even if it is your friend…or would you take a turn and go away?

I tell you these moments are sometimes crucial and decisive whether you are becoming gradually a drug dependent or not. If you have a strong mind and courage it might be that you only smoke ones and forget it, but if you have a weak character and in the moment they offer you a joint you also have problems…let’s say in your home, or with your girlfriend, or at your work…whatever the problem is in that moment this can decide if you enjoy the drug or not. When you feel better in the moment you smoke marijuana and forget all of your problems, come a moment that you always will get back to a drug when you are in problems in order to forget the problems or feel better for a moment.

But I tell you the crude reality comes afterwards you feel awful bad when you wake up to reality. You slowly become more and more dependent because after a while you are not satisfied with this small good-feeling-moments you like to feel the whole time better and relieved of your problems this is the moment when you really get more and more drug-dependent. And if you a person with a weak character…I tell you that is dangerous.

So my advice is never joining a group even if the group has some friends of yours as members. Turn around and be better a chicken…than a drug-consumer. I know within group of friends nobody likes to be called chicken or killjoy, but sometimes it is necessary to decide and have a strong character and courage. It is your life you spoil and you have the responsibility do decide what is best for you…nobody else will do it for you.

In my opinion every social group is in the same way affected it doesn’t matter if you are among the social-weak or from the high-society with money. The only difference is the guys with money buy easier what they need for their personal satisfaction than the guys from the social-weaker-class. Because of the need they are faced sometimes with the law.

When you’re a family member, or a becoming father, or a father…always communicate with your family or children and try to speak about everything as often as possible, ask your children what problems they face or have, what they think about drugs about everything. This is the only way to know what your children think about actual problems within our society and a sure way to gain the confidence of your children.

If you have no communication within your family or with your father, because when telling him something he always shouts at you or doesn’t understand like a friend than you start to refrain yourself from him and in most cases from your family because you keep saying that nobody understand you, or you nobody listen to you, and you get involved more easy with bad friends and bad company. So always keep a good communication with your family, even if you come home tired, maybe you are angry about something that happened at your work, in the traffic or what-so-ever, try always to stay calm if you cannot speak or discuss in that precise moment. Let them know it and tell them you will rest first and refill your battery you feel not well. But never deny the discussion with your family.
Only this way you can be absolutely sure of the trust of your children and family.

This is a call to every family-father, becoming-father, and it doesn’t matter if you are in an advanced age or young. If as father you never have discussed with your family or with your children now is the time to start. It is never too late, but you must take action, without action there is no achievement and no comprehensive understanding.